May 8, 2011

Happy Mother's Day!





Happy Mother's Day to all of you moms out there!  And happy mother's day to MY fabulous and wonderful and beautiful mom:



It's a funny thing.  I stumbled upon this book and contest awhile back (My Mom, My Style Icon).  Admittedly, I  used to get jealous when I would read stories from other bloggers about how they would raid their mom's closets for cool pieces to wear.  I used to get really jealous when I'd read or hear about glamorous shopping trips my friends would take with their moms.  "How fun would that be," I would think to myself, "to share my love of style with my mom."

My mom  has lived in South Dakota her entire life.  My childhood wasn't spent playing dress-up in her closet full of fabulous vintage pieces, or clumping around in her too-big-for-me high heels, or borrowing pieces of jewelry from her to layer into my outfits as a teenager. I used to joke that I didn't quite know where I came from with my love of fashion, because...which parent did I get it from?  My dad is known for accidentally wearing my mom's jeans (on more than one occasion, uff da?).  My mom was a tomboy growing up and has mostly remained as such.  I used to think that I really missed out on something there, as we always tend to want what we don't have and I'm definitely not a tomboy, and it wasn't until I saw the contest for the book that it all really clicked for me.

My mom is my style icon.  She is the hardest working person I know.  She is the most trustworthy person I know.  We didn't have a whole bunch of money as I was growing up, but when she found $100 one time she immediately turned it in to the counter of the place she found it--it never crossed her mind to do what most would probably do, which would be to quietly fold it up and tuck it securely into an empty pocket.

She is worldly in spite of having never having lived outside of the Midwest. Saturday mornings were always spent with the windows open as she'd clean, blaring Bob Marley, Paul Simon, and the Talking Heads on her radio.  Even though it's been well over a decade, I can still hear my mom singing along with "The Boy In The Bubble" as the scent of Pledge and Windex would float throughout the air. 

She is kind to everyone no matter who they are or where they come from.  Being a mother to two feisty twin daughters couldn't have been easy, but she is ever the diplomat, never meddling in whatever tiffs my sister and I might have. 

And most importantly, she has always wholeheartedly supported me and my sister and  whatever goofy little adventures we have wanted to have. My sister had piercings in nearly every part of her body while we were in high school and my mom loved her no less.  I wanted to flee to Colorado at the age of 21 with no job and hardly any money....and she loved me no less.  And without the support of her and my dad, and them allowing me to make my own mistakes and to lead my own life, I wouldn't be where I am today. 

My mom is my style icon through and through, and it has nothing to do with clothing or shoes or make-up. 

And I wouldn't have it any other way.

I love you, mom!  Happy Mother's Day to you, and to all the other mothers out there too.<3





15 comments:

  1. Lovely message and photo! (But FYI for future reference, the plural of mom and mother do not have an apostrophe.)

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  2. Loved this post...witty yet poignant. I'm sure it brought a big smile to Chloe mama's face.

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  3. And speaking of witty, how funny is your about me? I see it every time right after posting a comment, and chuckle.

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  4. Moms are funny and we can't always have what seems to be the norm. I have memories of my mom taking me shopping on numerous occasions. She has made me more than one outfit, including my wedding dress, yet we do not have a relationship.

    I'm glad that you can enjoy your mom and appreciate her for the person that she is and the person she has helped mold you into.

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  5. Your mom sounds like a wonderful woman! This is a beautiful post and tribute to her.

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  6. That is really beautfiul, Chloe! Love this post.

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  7. Aw!! Thanks for sharing!! I can definitely relate to your mom story...I have no family member who was/is a fashionista...I think I got it from Mary Kate and Ashley's during their "So Little Time" days!!

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  8. Hey! I'm a twin too! :)

    What a sweet tribute to your mom!

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  9. Loved reading this Chloe, thanks for sharing! Your mom sounds like one spectacular lady. Love the twinny twin pic too :)

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  10. Amy- Fixed it! Thanks for catching that. *I* know better, but the Chloe-who-has-been-drunk-on-Mai-Tais-and-massages-all-day-since-it's-also-her-5th-wedding-anniversary apparently does not. Hehehee. ;)

    PetiteAsianGirl- haha, thank you love!

    HeyThereCarole! - thank you for your comment and sharing your perspective on it. My mom once said to me, "It's not how many mistakes we make as parents, but how big those mistakes are...because we're going to make mistakes" that really stuck with me. I know it can be hard. :(

    LabelSnob- thank you! <3

    RosaLovesDC - Happy mother's day to YOU. Did Lola getcha anything good? ;)

    Popcorn, Pugs, and Peonies - thank you! And I love your moniker - 3 of my favorite things, yum.

    Michelle - Hahahaha! That's a great place to get it anyway, right?

    Annie - hello, fellow twin! We're a special breed, hm?

    Andi - thank you, darling! And yes--my mom is my age in that photo. I cannot imagine being a mom to twins right now, so the slight, "Oh god, what did I get into?" look on her face is perfection. My favorite picture.

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  11. That was beautiful Chloe! It's amazing to realize how wonderful our moms really are. We always appreciate them obviously but there are some moments where the lightbulb goes on and it hits us just how amazing they are!

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  12. Loved this post! It sounds like she set a wonderful example for y'all as a mother. I love that she loves y'all unconditionally and let you fly! :)

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  13. Just lovely, Chloe. Your mother sounds like a wonderful woman and terrific human being.

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  14. awwww...my mom is my icon too. Beautiful post!!!

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Chloe, Colorful Colorado. 5'8" (only) when teetering in her highest 6 inch Miu Miu platform heels. Likes fashion, broccoli, ice cream, clarifying that she does not eat ice cream with her broccoli as to not cause worldwide panic, hoarding beauty products & pretty shoes, tickle fights with her husband (he would like to clarify that he does not like them back, OKAY?), anything covered in sprinkles, any alcoholic beverage made with Tang, live music, clicking the camera, sarcasm fonts, vases stuffed full of pretty flowers, and laughing hard until her belly hurts. Wants an adventurous life, lots of puppies, to never obtusely wander around with her fly down, and to be an iconic Diane Von Furstenberg wrap dress with a bright, festive print when she grows up. This is where she bravely documents it all. (oh you really want more, do you?)